Well, they did it. Last weekend, two of my best friends in the world got married (hooray for Mr. and Mrs. Smooth!), and then threw one hell of a party.
It was a fancy affair; I made an appointment to get my hair did and everything. I got gussied up in a strapless black bridesmaid dress. I ate lobster tails and miniature grilled cheese sandwiches and did lots of Beyoncé dancing. Speeches were given, champagne was drunk, rugs were cut. It was an absolutely gorgeous evening, from the first notes of the ceremony to the last (boozy) drops of the reception. And getting to share it all with wonderful friends and family? Sigh. That’s the part that left me beaming on Sunday afternoon.
Today is Wednesday — it’s been three days since the party ended, and I won’t lie, it’s been rough. I miss the party. I miss my pretty hair. I miss Beyoncé dancing, and I miss my friends.
Still, I’ve found some things that help alleviate the general melancholy that follows a dreamy, friends and family-filled weekend. If you find yourself looking for something to fill a post-wedding weekend void, you could do any of the following:
- Find a job that allows you to bake pumpkin cookies with 3-year-olds all day.
- Go to Jen & Steve’s apartment, order deli sandwiches and debrief every detail of the weekend.
- Think about how fun it would be to take a trip to Hawaii.
- Sweat it out on the treadmill — you won’t want to, but it will make you feel better. Do it.
- Hop on a train to Philadelphia for Thanksgiving with your (read: my) family.
That last one is the best I’ve got. Thank goodness for Thanksgiving. For family football games. For time together in the kitchen and at the table. For stuffing and roasted root vegetables, for sweet potato biscuits and Brussels sprouts and cranberry sauce and pie. And for maple sweet potato soufflé.
…






















